That's a lot to put on someone. I mean, on both sides. She sounds kind of scary, being that good.

[Yet another tick in the "do not get married" box, yeesh, scary.]

But it doesn't sound like you were grasping at those things, it sounded like you had - have? - them.

[She isn't even touching the thousands of years living thing, she won't even live past sixty, normally.]

Can't have your cake and eat it too, I guess.